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BDSM branding: my personal experiences to give you the best advice

What is BDSM branding?

BDSM branding, a kink that isn’t spoken about often, involves burning the skin with a hot or cold instrument to produce a design. This mark could be either temporary or permanent. The temporary kind is often referred to as a surface burn, and will usually begin to fade within a few months. And after a year, nothing more than some residual redness will remain.

Permanent marking is a bit more complicated and would need to be done by heating the design with a propane torch. This is, however, not advised as it can lead to muscle injury and severe scarring.

How did we discover BDSM branding?

I have been with my Partner/Sir for over 6 years, but only in the last year, we accidentally discovered our love for BDSM branding. It all happened very naturally really. We were in the middle of a scene, on which I was lying on his lap, and he was spanking my butt. Next to us, there was a hot stove and an empty pint glass on it.


Suddenly, Sir took the hot glass in his hands and pressed the bottom surface onto my butt. The stinging pain shot up, awakening every single nerve in my body. It was an intense pain, something I had never experienced before, but it was also very intimate and romantic because of the position we were in and the reassuring words he whispered in my ear.

When the pain subsided a little, and I felt his rock-hard dick through his underwear, I offered myself for more.  The next day, I woke up with a few blisters on different parts of my body, which only made me horny, as it was him who inflicted them.

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The love for BDSM branding

After that evening, something was awoken in both of us. We were already big fans of pin-play and knife-play but BDSM branding was certainly another level. So, when Sir’s birthday arrived, I decided to give him a Steak-Branding set, with his name engraved into it. The Sadistic smile that appeared on his face showed me how much he actually liked this present.

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But it took a few months after this before the branding set got actually used. I think for some BDSM-practices, especially the more extreme ones, there is something as a perfect time, perfect place, and a perfect sense of connection. And when those three occur at the same time, that’s when you have the perfect moment to leave your mark a little bit more intensely.

Making BDSM branding happening

BDSM branding is not something that can be done in any session or relationship. It takes a real sadist to find pleasure in branding and a real pain-resilient masochist to allow this almost permanent damage to be afflicted onto them. But if you do experience BDSM branding, it is a beautiful and intimate feeling, and can undeniably end up as one of the most unforgettable BDSM scenes ever.


Here a few safety guidelines on how to start off. Of course, I am no expert; I am only sharing my experiences for informative purposes only. Every couple is different, and therefore what works for one might not work for others.

BDSM Branding Safety Guidelines

• First and foremost, you need to communicate. What symbol/word do you want? Remember that this mark will last for a very long time, if not even permanently, so you really need to consider what you want branded onto you. Maybe your Dominant’s name might sound like a good idea at the start, but if you are not planning to be with them for a long time, then you might consider something a little bit more neutral.

• Don’t start off the scene by branding. First, you need to get the connection, and most importantly, the Submissive must be in Subspace, or at least very close to Subspace. The reason for that is because in Subspace, your pain threshold is minimised whilst your will to want something is maximised. In Subspace, you simply feel more obedient to whatever it is that is expected from you.

• Choose how you will do the branding. Will you be tied up, or do you prefer to submit willingly? As for me, I love the intimacy around it and prefer to be held in his arms, rather than being retrained in chains. I also like to know the branding mark it is coming, especially if I am blindfolded. I enjoy offering myself for more, when I am ready to take more, rather than being persuaded into it.

• Choose carefully the place you wish to be branded on. After all, you are talking about a second, almost third-degree burn, so it will hurt for at least 10 days after (I am not exaggerating). If on top of that you have the brand on an awkward place like the bottom of your butt, or on your breast, you must keep in mind that the healing process will be much slower because of the continuous friction of your clothes on the wound.


As for me, I was branded on the top part of my butt. Although I could still sit, lying down, exercising and even moving were all painful for 10 days after. I have heard about branding on calves (very common), the back of the neck (this would need extra care because of hair growth and increased risk of infection) and behind the shoulder blades. Whatever place you decide to go for, do keep in mind that your wound will need a lot of care after.

• When you have finished the branding, aftercare is very important, to avoid a Subdrop or Domdrop. Talk about your experiences, have a cup of tea, have sex, or simply cuddle up for a while. Make sure your wounds are looked after. They must be cleaned with water and protected by a breathable, non-stick bandage. If the wound is on an awkward place, and a bandage is not possible, then make sure to use an antibiotic cream or petroleum jelly to cover the wound.

• Branding is qualified as edge play, as it does not come without risks. The aftercare for wounds is very important, to avoid infecting the area. Luckily, my Dom went to the chemist the next day to get me all sorts of healing creams and special non-stick bandages. Twice a day, he changed my wounds and kept a close eye on any discoloration or sign of infection.  This picture below, shows you my wound, five days after the branding.

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Branding a Sub is easy, but looking after them and their wound is not. So when you do adventure in BDSM branding, be a good Dom and care about your Sub’s safety as much as you care about satisfying the sadistic kink in your mind.

Personally, I find BDSM branding one of the most romantic and intimate BDSM practises out there. I love the feeling of fully submitting to him, allowing him to mark me on an almost permanent way, causing me a pain that instantly translates into pleasure. I love how every day after, for weeks after, I can feel the wounds when I shower, when I put on my clothes or even when I just climb the stairs.

I love how I can feel the marks burning when we have sex, and how he can control the pain by either gently stroking them or roughly spanking.  I love how I got plenty of TLC focused on my butt, and how I even got out of doing some house chores, as I was in too much pain. (Added bonus)

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So for any brave couple out there who does wish to adventure that way, communicate, express, choose the right time and have an orgasmic experience doing so.

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2 thoughts on “BDSM branding: my personal experiences to give you the best advice”

  1. MW64

    Amazing read. Thanks for your advice and insight into this most intimate experience which you and your Sir experienced. Just Amazing. Thank you.

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